Dating toward a blended family

When you both have kids, you are not only choosing a partner. You are choosing a family. Here are the talks DFW couples say they wish they had before they moved in together.

Talks to have first

• How do we each discipline the kids?
• Whose house, and whose rules?
• How do holidays work with both exes?
• How do we handle money for the kids?

Signs it can work

• You agree on the big rules, even if not the small ones.
• Each of you is kind to the other's kids without trying to replace a parent.
• You both go slow.

What the long-marriage data says

NamesBonds is built on the largest study ever done on names and lifelong marriage: official marriage and divorce records of nearly 1.3 million US couples, many followed for 40 years.

In a test on couples it had never seen, 95 in 100 couples our matching rated 90 or higher never divorced, 40 years later.

Singles events in DFW this month

Want to meet people face to face too? These organizers run regular singles nights in Dallas and Fort Worth:

• Jigsaw Dating: speed dating and happy hours, including ages 40 to 55.
• CitySwoon: matched speed dating in Dallas, by age group.
• The Fun Singles: speed dating and mixers for 43 to 55 and 56+, in person and online.
• 101Media: speed dating and singles mixers across DFW.

How NamesBonds works in Dallas

• Free to join.
• You sign up with your name and a few details about your life.
• We show you only the people who score high with you for a love that lasts, best matches first.

Ready to build a family that lasts?

Questions people ask

How long should you date before blending families?

Many family counselors suggest at least a year or two, with slow steps: short visits first, then holidays, then living together.

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Built on the largest study ever done on names and lifelong marriage: nearly 1.3 million US couples.